Relationships, Part II
We were talking about the Navigator and the Captain within a successful marriage as an analogy for equally important, yet fundamentally different, roles within life.
Imagine for a moment that your family is a ship, traversing the oceans of life. Your ship will need a competent Navigator who understands the meaning of the stars and can plot a course for success and a courageous Captain who, once given the co-ordinates of the destination, will do everything in his power to get the ship to the desired destination.
I often say that the Navigator tells the Captain where to head his craft and the Captain says to the Navigator…’how fast?’ A relationship based on trust describes the effective team of a Navigator and a Captain…a husband and wife. The wife navigates because it is the feminine energy that can read the stars at night…because she has a relationship with ‘the mysteries’ of creation through the cellular memory of her womb. A Captain leads his party forward, making decisions that protect his navigator and support his crew. He appears to be the boss, but without the navigator, he has no idea where to head his craft.
A successful marriage is based on trust. With genuine trust comes intimacy. With intimacy comes freedom. With freedom comes the opportunity to celebrate the truth of who you are…and who are you?
If you didn’t know already, you are an Infinite Immortal Being of Light, having a human experience. Your primary relationship is with The God force…reflected within you. This powerful connection to the Divine will never die, although it may be delayed as you struggle for knowledge of your true purpose within the third dimension and make decisions that do not serve your true purpose.
You must be sure of your own worth and the worthiness of those around you. Then you are free to develop your relationships with personal clarity and strength of purpose and make that purpose an Inter-dependent relationship based on love…and trust…and freedom.
